Editorials by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and the faculty

Our editorials offer insights from Dr. Gordon Neufeld and faculty, applying attachment-based developmental science to the pressing issues of our time. These writings help parents, educators, and professionals navigate complex topics with clarity, wisdom, and a deep understanding of human development.

Deborah MacNamara

Deborah MacNamara · Jan 22, 2016
Celebrating Counterwill with Gail
As I reflect and try to find words to describe who Gail was, I feel the smallness of these letters in relation to her strength, courage, and magnitud…Read more
Deborah MacNamara · Dec 1, 2015
Helping ‘Orchid’ Children Thrive (Part 3 of 3)
Dr. Deborah MacNamara shares how adults can protect, guide, and nurture sensitive ‘orchid’ children—helping them grow resilient through strong attach…Read more
Deborah MacNamara · Nov 24, 2015
Helping ‘Orchid’ Children Thrive (Part 2 of 3)
Sensitive kids are easily overwhelmed by sensory and emotional input. Dr. Deborah MacNamara shares key challenges and the role of strong adult attach…Read more
Deborah MacNamara · Nov 17, 2015
Helping ‘Orchid’ Children Thrive (Part 1 of 3)
One in five kids are ‘orchid’ children — deeply sensitive, reactive, and bright. Dr. Deborah MacNamara shares how to nurture their growth and attachm…Read more
Deborah MacNamara · Jun 23, 2015
Learning a Language of the Heart
Children need guidance to express their emotions. Learn how naming feelings and creating safe connections fosters maturity, resilience, and healthy r…Read more
Deborah MacNamara · Feb 17, 2015
Separation Anxiety: When Saying Good-Bye is Hard
Why separation is tough for young children and how parents can ease anxiety through attachment, bridging rituals, and supportive relationships. Read more
Deborah MacNamara · Feb 26, 2014
Holding On to Our Kids in a Digital World
As kids turn to peers and screens, parents can stay connected by leading with warmth, preserving bonds, and guiding children through the digital age.…Read more
Deborah MacNamara · Dec 21, 2011
There’s No Place Like Home
I share what home truly means to me—not just walls and a roof, but the safety of attachment. From my daughter’s tears to holiday reflections, I explo…Read more
Deborah MacNamara · Oct 31, 2011
Cultivating Attachment Villages
Community gives children belonging and support. Discover how to cultivate an attachment village so families can thrive with connection and care. Read more