Editorials by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and the faculty

Our editorials offer insights from Dr. Gordon Neufeld and faculty, applying attachment-based developmental science to the pressing issues of our time. These writings help parents, educators, and professionals navigate complex topics with clarity, wisdom, and a deep understanding of human development.

Darlene Denis-Friske

Darlene Denis-Friske · Dec 14, 2020
Three Generations in the Kitchen
Darlene Denis-Friske reflects on Christmas traditions shaped by her late mother. Through laughter, meals, and rituals passed down, her family finds c…Read more
Darlene Denis-Friske · Apr 30, 2020
Relationship, Room, and Rest for the Cooped-Up Adolescent
How parents can support teens through alarm, frustration, and isolation by prioritizing relationship, giving room for emotions, and fostering rest. Read more
Darlene Denis-Friske · Aug 2, 2016
The Roots …
Darlene Denis-Friske reflects on how focusing on the parent-child relationship builds deep roots that help children weather life’s inevitable challen…Read more
Darlene Denis-Friske · May 11, 2015
Spring is Here and … Love is in the Air
Adolescence brings new feelings of romance and attraction. Discover how parents can stay close, listen, and guide with warmth through this tender sea…Read more
Darlene Denis-Friske · Sep 9, 2012
Beware the ‘Overlies’…
I’ve learned to ease my kids through the “overlies”—overtired, overstretched, overwhelmed—by slowing down, connecting, and making space for feelings.…Read more
Darlene Denis-Friske · May 17, 2012
Sibling Tensions: Staying Outside of Details, and Inside Relationships…
When siblings clash, parents often get stuck in details. Learn how to step back, protect connection, and guide children through conflict with empathy…Read more
Darlene Denis-Friske · Jan 16, 2012
Moments of Connection with our Children
Discover how small daily moments of delight, warmth, and presence can strengthen parent–child bonds more than scheduled “quality time.” Read more
Darlene Denis-Friske · Sep 16, 2011
Next on our study group agenda: Counterwill
As a parent and professional, I’ve found Neufeld’s concept of counterwill invaluable in understanding children’s resistance and growth. Read more
Darlene Denis-Friske · Aug 12, 2011
Children, Teens, and Technology
As a parent, I’ve seen how phones and screens affect kids. Here’s how we created structure and safeguards to keep technology in its healthy place. Read more