Editorials by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and the faculty

Our editorials offer insights from Dr. Gordon Neufeld and faculty, applying attachment-based developmental science to the pressing issues of our time. These writings help parents, educators, and professionals navigate complex topics with clarity, wisdom, and a deep understanding of human development.

Gail Carney

Gail Carney · Oct 9, 2012
I heard my father talking…
From my dad’s steady presence to an eccentric art professor, I share how attachment with teachers and mentors shaped my learning and sense of self. Read more
Gail Carney · Jun 29, 2011
Blame
Gail Carney explores how blame, guilt, and shame cycle with frustration—and how finding tears can release the pressure. Read more
Gail Carney · Mar 22, 2011
Shame
Shame and guilt are not the same. Guilt means recognizing you did something wrong; shame means believing something is wrong with you. Understanding t…Read more
Gail Carney · Oct 31, 2010
Halloween – This is Our Fright Night
Halloween play helps children work through fear and anxiety safely. Masks, darkness, and spookiness provide thrills, but home and attachment must anc…Read more
Gail Carney · Oct 19, 2010
Guilt
Guilt is an inevitable part of parenting. While uncomfortable, it plays a role in growth—for both parents and children—by fostering responsibility an…Read more