Editorials by Dr. Gordon Neufeld

Mar 29, 2020
Taking Care of Children in Alarming Times
Gordon Neufeld
Gordon Neufeld on helping children feel safe in uncertain times — through attachment, play, and simple non-alarming scripts that guide and protect. Read more
Dec 9, 2019
‘Tis the Season for Sad Music!
Gordon Neufeld
Gordon Neufeld explores how sad music helps us process hidden emotions, restore balance, and rediscover joy during the holiday season. Read more
Sep 3, 2019
Bouncing Back After School: heart hygiene for our children
Gordon Neufeld
Gordon Neufeld explains how children’s feelings freeze under school stress and why safe after-school moments are vital for resilience and attachment.…Read more
Jan 17, 2019
An Unusual New Year’s Greeting
Gordon Neufeld
Gordon Neufeld reflects on happiness, rest, and the science of play, sharing why true playfulness may be the missing key to well-being for us and our…Read more
Jan 17, 2018
Reflections on Making Sense of Kids
Gordon Neufeld
Gordon Neufeld reflects on why insight is essential in parenting and teaching today, exploring intuition, attachment, and the challenge of making sen…Read more
Mar 15, 2017
Could you bounce back?
Gordon Neufeld
Why do some recover from adversity while others falter? Gordon Neufeld explains resilience as the key to healing, growth, and emotional well-being. Read more
Jan 11, 2017
Where has all the maturity gone, and why have so few noticed its lack?
Gordon Neufeld
What happened to maturity? Gordon Neufeld explores immaturity in society, attachment, and how parents can provide the conditions for children to grow…Read more
Apr 14, 2016
A Playful Approach to Discipline — Part II
Gordon Neufeld
Gordon Nefueld explores how play — not consequences — resolves children’s problem behaviour by addressing immaturity, counterwill, emotions, alarm, a…Read more
Mar 16, 2016
A Playful Approach to Discipline — Part I
Gordon Neufeld
Learn why most discipline fails to address the root causes of children’s behaviour. From immaturity to counterwill, Gordon Neufeld shares how play — …Read more
Mar 29, 2020
Taking Care of Children in Alarming Times
Gordon Neufeld
Gordon Neufeld on helping children feel safe in uncertain times — through attachment, play, and simple non-alarming scripts that guide and protect. Read more
Dec 9, 2019
‘Tis the Season for Sad Music!
Gordon Neufeld
Gordon Neufeld explores how sad music helps us process hidden emotions, restore balance, and rediscover joy during the holiday season. Read more
Sep 3, 2019
Bouncing Back After School: heart hygiene for our children
Gordon Neufeld
Gordon Neufeld explains how children’s feelings freeze under school stress and why safe after-school moments are vital for resilience and attachment.…Read more
Jan 17, 2019
An Unusual New Year’s Greeting
Gordon Neufeld
Gordon Neufeld reflects on happiness, rest, and the science of play, sharing why true playfulness may be the missing key to well-being for us and our…Read more
Jan 17, 2018
Reflections on Making Sense of Kids
Gordon Neufeld
Gordon Neufeld reflects on why insight is essential in parenting and teaching today, exploring intuition, attachment, and the challenge of making sen…Read more
Mar 15, 2017
Could you bounce back?
Gordon Neufeld
Why do some recover from adversity while others falter? Gordon Neufeld explains resilience as the key to healing, growth, and emotional well-being. Read more
Jan 11, 2017
Where has all the maturity gone, and why have so few noticed its lack?
Gordon Neufeld
What happened to maturity? Gordon Neufeld explores immaturity in society, attachment, and how parents can provide the conditions for children to grow…Read more
Apr 14, 2016
A Playful Approach to Discipline — Part II
Gordon Neufeld
Gordon Nefueld explores how play — not consequences — resolves children’s problem behaviour by addressing immaturity, counterwill, emotions, alarm, a…Read more
Mar 16, 2016
A Playful Approach to Discipline — Part I
Gordon Neufeld
Learn why most discipline fails to address the root causes of children’s behaviour. From immaturity to counterwill, Gordon Neufeld shares how play — …Read more

Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers

By Dr. Gordon Neufeld

This book, written by Dr. Gordon Neufeld, is about the pivotal importance of children’s relationships to those responsible for them and the devastating impact in today’s society of competing attachments with peers.

However it is much more than a book on peer orientation: it is about parenting with relationship in mind.

This book restores parents to their natural intuition, confronting such relationship-devastating devices as time-outs and using what children care about against them.

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