Editorials by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and the faculty

Our editorials offer insights from Dr. Gordon Neufeld and faculty, applying attachment-based developmental science to the pressing issues of our time. These writings help parents, educators, and professionals navigate complex topics with clarity, wisdom, and a deep understanding of human development.

Gordon Neufeld

Gordon Neufeld · Oct 2, 2025
Reflections on Stuckness
Stuckness is a hidden yet common issue in childhood. Gordon Neufeld outlines the signs and causes of Stuckness, and how adults can make a difference.…Read more
Gordon Neufeld · May 25, 2025
Long Live Shyness!
Gordon Neufeld reframes shyness as a natural gift of attachment, not a disorder. Learn why shyness matters, how it differs from social anxiety, and w…Read more
Gordon Neufeld · Jan 8, 2025
Neufeld on When Attachments Fail
What if the key to moving forward is learning how to grieve? Gordon Neufeld reflects on loss, attachment, and why sadness may be the path to healing.…Read more
Gordon Neufeld · Sep 10, 2024
Neufeld Rants on Empathy
Dr. Gordon Neufeld challenges common misunderstandings about empathy, revealing its true developmental roots and what it really takes to grow a carin…Read more
Gordon Neufeld · Feb 28, 2024
Neufeld on Why I Capitalize Nature
Dr. Gordon Neufeld shares why he capitalizes “Nature” — honouring its guiding role in human development, healing, and the unfolding of potential. Read more
Gordon Neufeld · Jan 9, 2024
Neufeld on Endless Beginnings
Dr. Gordon Neufeld reflects on the nature of fresh starts, the importance of pausing, and why new beginnings are rooted in something deeper than doin…Read more
Gordon Neufeld · Sep 4, 2023
It All Depends
Dr. Gordon Neufeld explores why dependence is central to child development and relationships, urging parents and teachers to invite children to truly…Read more
Gordon Neufeld · Apr 4, 2023
Rethinking Dependence
Dr. Gordon Neufeld challenges the push for early independence in children, highlighting the wisdom of dependence and how attachment fosters true grow…Read more
Gordon Neufeld · Nov 18, 2022
Reflections from Gordon on the Mystery of Coupling
Gordon Neufeld explores the mystery of coupling, revealing how marriage and relationships make sense through an attachment-based lens. Read more