Editorials by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and the faculty

Our editorials offer insights from Dr. Gordon Neufeld and faculty, applying attachment-based developmental science to the pressing issues of our time. These writings help parents, educators, and professionals navigate complex topics with clarity, wisdom, and a deep understanding of human development.

Lisa Weiner

Lisa Weiner · Dec 5, 2024
The Light of Connection: food, light & the shoe pile
My sons were often the only Jewish children in their classes, given that Portland, Oregon has a relatively small Jewish population. Like parents in …Read more
Lisa Weiner · Dec 12, 2022
Holiday Traditions
Stories from Lisa Weiner, Tamara Strijack, Bree Jordan, and Karen Bollman show how intentional family rituals and holiday traditions nurture attachme…Read more
Lisa Weiner · Apr 22, 2022
Glimpses of the Hidden Work of Play
Stories from Neufeld Institute faculty on the healing power of play in parenting—supporting teens, easing anxiety, and restoring well-being. Read more
Lisa Weiner · Dec 6, 2021
Togetherness Rituals
Explore how family rituals during the holidays nurture attachment, play, and lasting memories, with insights from Neufeld Institute faculty. Read more
Lisa Weiner · Apr 26, 2021
Playing with Alarm
Lisa Weiner explores Gordon Neufeld’s insight into children’s alarm systems and how play—through safe scares, courage games, and gentle sadness—can h…Read more
Lisa Weiner · Mar 11, 2021
The Two Essential Invitations
Lisa Weiner reflects on Dr. Gordon Neufeld’s teaching that children need two essential invitations: the deep attachment of unconditional presence and…Read more
Lisa Weiner · Dec 1, 2020
Traditions: Now More Than Ever
Neufeld Institute voices, including Lisa Weiner, reflect on how beloved holiday traditions carry comfort and attachment. Even in the midst of Covid, …Read more
Lisa Weiner · Jul 2, 2020
What to do with Frustration
Lisa Weiner shares how to help kids release frustration safely through play and expression, drawing on Gordon Neufeld’s approach. Read more
Lisa Weiner · Sep 15, 2019
School Days: Remembering the Connections that Count
Lisa Weiner explains why shyness and school protest are normal attachment instincts, and how parents can support children through connection, not pre…Read more