Editorials by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and the faculty

Our editorials offer insights from Dr. Gordon Neufeld and faculty, applying attachment-based developmental science to the pressing issues of our time. These writings help parents, educators, and professionals navigate complex topics with clarity, wisdom, and a deep understanding of human development.

Colleen Drobot · Feb 19, 2011
In Praise of Limiting Praise
Too much praise can undermine a child’s confidence and creativity. Unconditional love and support matter more than approval based on success or perfo…Read more
Lis Kroeker · Feb 11, 2011
The Boy Who Didn’t Exist
A boy labeled a bully revealed deep vulnerability beneath his defiance. Seeing past behaviour to his need for attachment shows the power of soft hear…Read more
Guest Contributor · Jan 31, 2011
Recess — Child’s play? // by Cindy Leavitt
Recess can be one of the most difficult parts of the school day. Without adult guidance, peer dynamics often lead to conflict. Children thrive when s…Read more
Eva de Gosztonyi · Jan 22, 2011
Teaching Social Skills
Teaching social skills is less about step-by-step programs and more about supporting child development. True growth comes through adult relationships…Read more
Tamara Strijack · Jan 11, 2011
Homeschooling: A Personal Journey
Tamara Strijack's homeschooling journey began with worry for her daughter’s well-being. Creating safe, nurturing conditions at home helped her daught…Read more
Gordon Neufeld · Jan 5, 2011
Back to Basics in the New Year
New Year’s parenting resolutions can go beyond health. The most important gift is the invitation for children to exist in our presence, fostering att…Read more
Deborah MacNamara · Dec 21, 2010
The Mystery of Magical Thinking
Children’s belief in Santa Claus reflects magical thinking rooted in brain development. As they grow, this stage ends, but the wonder of childhood re…Read more
Darlene Denis-Friske · Dec 14, 2010
The Season of Giving
Amid holiday stress and gift-giving pressures, what children need most is connection. Warmth, presence, and relationship provide the lasting gifts mo…Read more
Deborah MacNamara · Nov 29, 2010
The Importance of Desire in Learning
Children learn best when desire comes before instruction. Supporting curiosity, rather than pushing parental interests, fosters motivation, creativit…Read more