Editorials by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and the faculty

Our editorials offer insights from Dr. Gordon Neufeld and faculty, applying attachment-based developmental science to the pressing issues of our time. These writings help parents, educators, and professionals navigate complex topics with clarity, wisdom, and a deep understanding of human development.

Gordon Neufeld · Sep 6, 2022
The Untold Story of Frustration in 18 Minutes
Gordon Neufeld reveals the untold story of frustration—how it shapes attachment, brain function, and emotional development. Read more
Tamara Strijack · May 5, 2022
The Mud Puddle and a Slug Called Finley
Tamara Strijack reflects on childhood wonder, mud puddle protests, and a slug named Finley—showing how nature nurtures growth and resilience. Read more
Lisa Weiner · Apr 22, 2022
Glimpses of the Hidden Work of Play
Stories from Neufeld Institute faculty on the healing power of play in parenting—supporting teens, easing anxiety, and restoring well-being. Read more
Guest Contributor · Feb 22, 2022
Saltwater Tears: a personal reflection // by Genevieve Schreier
A personal reflection by Genevieve Schreier on loss, grief, and the inevitability of endings—through ocean waves, children’s play, and the sandcastle…Read more
Tamara Strijack · Jan 10, 2022
Reflections on the Passage of Time
Discover how play, presence, and natural rhythms can transform our relationship with time, offering moments of timelessness and deeper connection. Read more
Lisa Weiner · Dec 6, 2021
Togetherness Rituals
Explore how family rituals during the holidays nurture attachment, play, and lasting memories, with insights from Neufeld Institute faculty. Read more
Sara Easterly · Nov 1, 2021
The Two-Way Magic of a Bridging Playlist
Discover how bedtime music can bridge separation, soften hearts, and support parent-child connection in the Neufeld approach to sleep. Read more
Gordon Neufeld · Oct 4, 2021
There’s a Hole in My Bucket
Gordon Neufeld reflects on futility, attachment, and the challenges of bedtime—where sadness, connection, and letting go come together. Read more
Deborah MacNamara · Sep 7, 2021
Leading Our Children Back to School
Discover how attachment, play, and emotional expression help children adapt to school transitions and new realities with less anxiety. Read more