Editorials by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and the faculty

Our editorials offer insights from Dr. Gordon Neufeld and faculty, applying attachment-based developmental science to the pressing issues of our time. These writings help parents, educators, and professionals navigate complex topics with clarity, wisdom, and a deep understanding of human development.

Gordon Neufeld · Apr 4, 2023
Rethinking Dependence
Dr. Gordon Neufeld challenges the push for early independence in children, highlighting the wisdom of dependence and how attachment fosters true grow…Read more
Guest Contributor · Jan 23, 2023
Introduction to the Slovenian Translation of Hold On To Your Kids // By Urška Žugelj
Discover Dr. Urška Žugelj’s introduction to the Slovenian edition of Hold On to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté, exploring attachment, pee…Read more
Lisa Weiner · Dec 12, 2022
Holiday Traditions
Stories from Lisa Weiner, Tamara Strijack, Bree Jordan, and Karen Bollman show how intentional family rituals and holiday traditions nurture attachme…Read more
Guest Contributor · Nov 21, 2022
Radical Coming Alongside // By Celena Krahn
Celena Krahn shares her journey of parenting through adolescence, exploring how opening her heart and meeting her son where he is can transform confl…Read more
Gordon Neufeld · Nov 18, 2022
Reflections from Gordon on the Mystery of Coupling
Gordon Neufeld explores the mystery of coupling, revealing how marriage and relationships make sense through an attachment-based lens. Read more
Gordon Neufeld · Sep 6, 2022
The Untold Story of Frustration in 18 Minutes
Gordon Neufeld reveals the untold story of frustration — how it shapes attachment, brain function, and emotional development. Read more
Tamara Strijack · May 5, 2022
The Mud Puddle and a Slug Called Finley
Tamara Strijack reflects on childhood wonder, mud puddle protests, and a slug named Finley — showing how nature nurtures growth and resilience. Read more
Lisa Weiner · Apr 22, 2022
Glimpses of the Hidden Work of Play
Stories from Neufeld Institute faculty on the healing power of play in parenting — supporting teens, easing anxiety, and restoring well-being. Read more
Guest Contributor · Feb 22, 2022
Saltwater Tears: a personal reflection // by Genevieve Schreier
Genevieve Schreier reflects on loss, grief, and the inevitability of endings — through ocean waves, children’s play, and the sandcastles we build and…Read more