Editorials by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and the faculty

Our editorials offer insights from Dr. Gordon Neufeld and faculty, applying attachment-based developmental science to the pressing issues of our time. These writings help parents, educators, and professionals navigate complex topics with clarity, wisdom, and a deep understanding of human development.

Colleen Drobot · Oct 15, 2010
Cultivating Independence: A Paradox!
True independence in children grows from dependence first. When parents provide care and support, kids feel secure enough to explore, mature, and sta…Read more
Guest Contributor · Oct 11, 2010
Addressing Anxiety // by Cindy Leavitt
Children’s anxiety is real, even when fears seem irrational. By making room for their feelings and offering safety in attachment, parents help kids f…Read more
Tamara Strijack · Oct 10, 2010
Carving Out Time for Family Connection
Family traditions, like decorating the Christmas tree together, create connection, belonging, and love. Protecting these moments helps preserve what …Read more
Colleen Drobot · Oct 10, 2010
What Matters Most
Children need to feel they matter. Simple gestures of warmth, delight, and one-on-one time deepen attachment, foster unconditional love, and support …Read more
Darlene Denis-Friske · Oct 9, 2010
The Counterwill Storm: Making Sense of Adolescent Resistance
Learn why teens resist. Gordon Neufeld’s counterwill theory explains adolescent defiance and offers insight for parents and teachers. Read more
Darlene Denis-Friske · Sep 27, 2010
Absence of ‘Parent’ in the Lives of Adolescents
Adolescents need consistent adult guidance and attachment, yet media often portrays parents as absent or irrelevant. Without strong adult involvement…Read more
Deborah MacNamara · Sep 20, 2010
It’s Not Just Child’s Play
Play is vital for children’s brain development, creativity, and problem-solving. Emergent play—driven by curiosity and imagination—builds the foundat…Read more
Patti Drobot · Sep 13, 2010
School Separation Challenges
Separation at school can be hard for young children. Morning connection, bridging the goodbye, and small rituals help ease transitions and strengthen…Read more
Lis Kroeker · Sep 10, 2010
The First Day of School
The first day of school can bring fear and worry for children. A safe, caring teacher-student relationship—built on trust, regard, and belief—creates…Read more