Editorials by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and the faculty

Our editorials offer insights from Dr. Gordon Neufeld and faculty, applying attachment-based developmental science to the pressing issues of our time. These writings help parents, educators, and professionals navigate complex topics with clarity, wisdom, and a deep understanding of human development.

Colleen Drobot · Apr 20, 2011
Supporting the Anxious Child
Children can develop anxiety after frightening experiences. By strengthening attachment, offering reassurance, and taking the lead, parents help them…Read more
Shoshana Hayman · Apr 10, 2011
“And Thou Shalt Teach Thy Children…” Linking the Generations Together Through Centuries
The Passover Seder shows how traditions nurture attachment across generations. In a warm, loving atmosphere, children learn values, faith, and curios…Read more
Pamela Whyte · Apr 2, 2011
What a Child Needs is Love
A preschool teacher from Zaire observes differences in Canadian childcare, highlighting that while independence is emphasized here, children’s deepes…Read more
Gail Carney · Mar 22, 2011
Shame
Shame and guilt are not the same. Guilt means recognizing you did something wrong; shame means believing something is wrong with you. Understanding t…Read more
Patti Drobot · Mar 11, 2011
The Power of Attachment
Attachment is the bond that lasts a lifetime. A grandmother’s love, presence, and care show how deep connections nurture safety, resilience, and belo…Read more
Pamela Whyte · Mar 11, 2011
Attachment Hunger
Children need secure relationships as much as food and shelter. When attachment needs go unmet, they show restlessness, clinginess, and insecurity — …Read more
Colleen Drobot · Feb 19, 2011
In Praise of Limiting Praise
Too much praise can undermine a child’s confidence and creativity. Unconditional love and support matter more than approval based on success or perfo…Read more
Lis Kroeker · Feb 11, 2011
The Boy Who Didn’t Exist
A boy labeled a bully revealed deep vulnerability beneath his defiance. Seeing past behaviour to his need for attachment shows the power of soft hear…Read more
Guest Contributor · Jan 31, 2011
Recess — Child’s play? // by Cindy Leavitt
Recess can be one of the most difficult parts of the school day. Without adult guidance, peer dynamics often lead to conflict. Children thrive when s…Read more