Editorials by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and the faculty

Our editorials offer insights from Dr. Gordon Neufeld and faculty, applying attachment-based developmental science to the pressing issues of our time. These writings help parents, educators, and professionals navigate complex topics with clarity, wisdom, and a deep understanding of human development.

Gordon Neufeld · Oct 4, 2021
There’s a Hole in My Bucket
Gordon Neufeld reflects on futility, attachment, and the challenges of bedtime — where sadness, connection, and letting go come together. Read more
Deborah MacNamara · Sep 7, 2021
Leading Our Children Back to School
Discover how attachment, play, and emotional expression help children adapt to school transitions and new realities with less anxiety. Read more
Tamara Strijack · Jun 29, 2021
Adding the Wisdom of Play to the Wisdom of Trauma
Tamara Strijack explores how play helps heal trauma and restore connection, expanding on Gabor Maté’s insights from The Wisdom of Trauma. Read more
Tamara Strijack · May 25, 2021
90 Days of Sunday: Reflections on a Season of Slow
Tamara Strijack reflects on her sabbatical — 90 days of slowing down, unplugging from technology, and rediscovering rhythm, rest, and permission thro…Read more
Lisa Weiner · Apr 26, 2021
Playing with Alarm
Lisa Weiner explores Gordon Neufeld’s insight into children’s alarm systems and how play — through safe scares, courage games, and gentle sadness — c…Read more
Lisa Weiner · Mar 11, 2021
The Two Essential Invitations
Lisa Weiner reflects on Dr. Gordon Neufeld’s teaching that children need two essential invitations: the deep attachment of unconditional presence and…Read more
Guest Contributor · Jan 9, 2021
Where Has My Sweet Child Gone?! The Challenge of Holding On to Our Young Teens // Robin Brooks-Sherriff
Robin Brooks-Sherriff explores the emotional ups and downs of early adolescence and how parents can stay connected, guide with grace, and hold on thr…Read more
Darlene Denis-Friske · Dec 14, 2020
Three Generations in the Kitchen
Darlene Denis-Friske reflects on Christmas traditions shaped by her late mother. Through laughter, meals, and rituals passed down, her family finds c…Read more
Lisa Weiner · Dec 1, 2020
Traditions: Now More Than Ever
Neufeld Institute voices, including Lisa Weiner, reflect on how beloved holiday traditions carry comfort and attachment. Even in the midst of Covid, …Read more