Editorials by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and the faculty

Our editorials offer insights from Dr. Gordon Neufeld, Dr. Deborah MacNamara, Tamara Strijack and faculty, applying attachment-based developmental science to the pressing issues of our time. These writings help parents, educators, and professionals navigate complex topics with clarity, wisdom, and a deep understanding of human development.

Shoshana Hayman · Apr 10, 2011
“And Thou Shall Teach Thy Children….” Linking the Generations Together Through Centuries
The Passover Seder shows how traditions nurture attachment across generations. In a warm, loving atmosphere, children learn values, faith, and curios…Read more
Pamela Whyte · Apr 2, 2011
What a Child Needs is Love
A preschool teacher from Zaire observed differences in Canadian childcare, highlighting that while independence is emphasized here, children’s deepes…Read more
Gail Carney · Mar 22, 2011
Shame
Shame and guilt are not the same. Guilt means recognizing you did something wrong; shame means believing something is wrong with you. Understanding t…Read more
Patti Drobot · Mar 11, 2011
The Power of Attachment
Attachment is the bond that lasts a lifetime. A grandmother’s love, presence, and care show how deep connections nurture safety, resilience, and belo…Read more
Pamela Whyte · Mar 11, 2011
Attachment Hunger
Children need secure relationships as much as food and shelter. When attachment needs go unmet, they show restlessness, clinginess, and insecurity—si…Read more
Colleen Drobot · Feb 19, 2011
In Praise of Limiting Praise
Too much praise can undermine a child’s confidence and creativity. Unconditional love and support matter more than approval based on success or perfo…Read more
Lis Kroeker · Feb 11, 2011
The Boy Who Didn’t Exist
A boy labeled a bully revealed deep vulnerability beneath his defiance. Seeing past behavior to his need for attachment shows the power of soft heart…Read more
Guest Contributor · Jan 31, 2011
Recess – Child’s play? // by Cindy Leavitt
Recess can be one of the most difficult parts of the school day. Without adult guidance, peer dynamics often lead to conflict. Children thrive when s…Read more
Eva de Gosztonyi · Jan 22, 2011
Teaching Social Skills
Teaching social skills is less about step-by-step programs and more about supporting child development. True growth comes through adult relationships…Read more
All posts Gordon Neufeld Deborah MacNamara Tamara Strijack Darlene Denis-Friske Lisa Weiner Eva de Gosztonyi Sara Easterly Colleen Drobot Pamela Whyte Gail Carney Shoshana Hayman Lis Kroeker Patti Drobot Jule Epp Guest Contributor

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