Editorials by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and the faculty

Our editorials offer insights from Dr. Gordon Neufeld and faculty, applying attachment-based developmental science to the pressing issues of our time. These writings help parents, educators, and professionals navigate complex topics with clarity, wisdom, and a deep understanding of human development.

Deborah MacNamara · Oct 18, 2016
The Vulnerability Problem of the Bully
Bullies act fearless, but behind hardened hearts lies lost vulnerability. Understanding this root helps us see why punishment fails—and how caring re…Read more
Tamara Strijack · Oct 16, 2016
Lessons from the Farm: A Story of Alpha and Alarm
An alpaca’s alarm teaches us about children in alpha mode—why insecurity fuels anxiety, and how adults can restore safety. Read more
Sara Easterly · Sep 20, 2016
From ‘The Dungeon’ to the Desired: One School’s Incredible Transformation
How one Quebec elementary school went from “The Dungeon” to a thriving community through attachment-based practices, caring adults, and parent partne…Read more
Deborah MacNamara · Sep 13, 2016
Parenting in a Digital Age: United Nations Address for the Global Day of Parents
A UN address on raising children in a digital world: why attachment and relationships—not devices—are what kids need most to grow and thrive. Read more
Darlene Denis-Friske · Aug 2, 2016
The Roots …
Darlene Denis-Friske reflects on how focusing on the parent-child relationship builds deep roots that help children weather life’s inevitable challen…Read more
Deborah MacNamara · Jul 18, 2016
Softening the Hardened Heart
Explore how emotional defenses form—and how warmth and connection can help them melt Read more
Tamara Strijack · Jun 28, 2016
Press Pause and Play
Summer offers a chance to pause digital distractions and rediscover real play. Tamara Strijack reflects on why children and adults need unstructured …Read more
Eva de Gosztonyi · Jun 2, 2016
Parenting in Stressful Times – Part II: Holding On During the Rebound
Eva shares how children may seem resilient after disaster or loss, but emotions often surface later. By holding space for alarm, frustration, and tea…Read more
Eva de Gosztonyi · May 17, 2016
Parenting in Stressful Times – Part I: How to be Your Child’s “Best Bet”
Eva shares how, during disasters like the Fort McMurray fires, parents can help children feel safe, lean on attachment, and find resilience through t…Read more