Editorials by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and the faculty

Our editorials offer insights from Dr. Gordon Neufeld and faculty, applying attachment-based developmental science to the pressing issues of our time. These writings help parents, educators, and professionals navigate complex topics with clarity, wisdom, and a deep understanding of human development.

Gordon Neufeld · Apr 14, 2016
A Playful Approach to Discipline – Part II
I explore how play—not consequences—resolves children’s problem behaviour by addressing immaturity, counterwill, emotions, alarm, and lost tears. Read more
Gordon Neufeld · Mar 16, 2016
A Playful Approach to Discipline – Part I
Learn why most discipline fails to address the root causes of children’s behaviour. From immaturity to counterwill, I share how play—not consequences…Read more
Guest Contributor · Jan 27, 2016
Gail: A Life Lived in Widening Circles // By Elana Brief
I live my life in widening circles that reach out across the world. I may not complete this last one but I give myself to it. Read more
Guest Contributor · Jan 25, 2016
Recollections of Gail // By Bridgett Miller
Gail may be gone, but because of who she was to me, she will always be close to my heart. I feel truly blessed to have known her. Read more
Sara Easterly · Jan 24, 2016
Gail In My Heart
Like the title of her favourite book, Gail remains in my heart, in the heart of the Institute, in the hearts of the countless people she touched. Read more
Deborah MacNamara · Jan 22, 2016
Celebrating Counterwill with Gail
As I reflect and try to find words to describe who Gail was, I feel the smallness of these letters in relation to her strength, courage, and magnitud…Read more
Gordon Neufeld · Jan 21, 2016
Gail Remembered: A Personal Tribute
Gail holds a very special place in my heart, in the writing of the book [Hold On to Your Kids], and in the development of the Neufeld Institute. Read more
Deborah MacNamara · Dec 1, 2015
Helping ‘Orchid’ Children Thrive (Part 3 of 3)
Dr. Deborah MacNamara shares how adults can protect, guide, and nurture sensitive ‘orchid’ children—helping them grow resilient through strong attach…Read more
Deborah MacNamara · Nov 24, 2015
Helping ‘Orchid’ Children Thrive (Part 2 of 3)
Sensitive kids are easily overwhelmed by sensory and emotional input. Dr. Deborah MacNamara shares key challenges and the role of strong adult attach…Read more